Speak To Us of
Children
And a woman who held a babe
against her bosom said,
Speak to us of Children.
And he said: Your children are
not your children.
They are the sons and
daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not
from you,
And though they are with you,
yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love
but not your thoughts,
For they have their own
thoughts.
You may house their bodies but
not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the
house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like
them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor
tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which
your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon
the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows
may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the
archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow
that flies, so He loves also the bow that is
stable.
Khalil Gibran (1883 – 1931)
from his book The Prophet